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wedding-and-event-venues-in-the-hamptons Weddings on the South Fork and the Hamptons, including beautiful Shelter Island, are as unique as this corner of the world. Properties that were once only privately viewed are now being happily shared with celebrants of special events. There are casual "beachy" hotels, elegant manors, lawns bordered by hydrangeas or sweeping down to the bay or ocean, old barns, and catering hall/restaurants with sunset views over the bay and beautiful back yards.

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Atlantis Banquets & Events

431 East Main Street
Riverhead, NY 11901
(631) 574-8008

Atlantis Banquets & Events creates a magical atmosphere for any social event. Nestled on the banks of the Peconic River, this waterfront venue has a space just right for any gathering you have in mind and can accommodate functions involving 20 to 650 guests, in settings as diverse as the waterside Riverside Pavilion, popular for cocktail parties, elegant Coliseum Room, perfect for formal evening receptions, the breathtaking Sea Star Ballroom, the Terrace Room, perfect for bridal showers or post-nuptial brunches, and Peconic Meeting Room, conveniently located in the adjacent Hyatt Place East End & Resort Marina.

As impressive as its spaces, their exquisite cuisine and top-notch service is what will really wow you and your guests. No matter the size and budget of your wedding or other event, Atlantis Banquets & Events can tailor a menu to suit your tastes and your budget (kosher style available).

Atlantis Banquets & Events elevates even the simplest gathering to a uniquely memorable occasion. Arrange a tour and discover the many options they offer for your own unforgettably magical celebration.

Brecknock Hall

One Brecknock Road
Greenport, NY
(631) 593-8200

Brecknock Hall elegant and beautiful wedding venue If you have ever dreamed of a Great Gatsby style party in a Gold Coast style mansion, you need look no further than Brecknock Hall at Peconic Landing in Greenport. This mid-19th century manor home underwent a complete restoration that was completed in 2009 and now stands ready for any celebration, in any season. The main floor of the manor home can accommodate up to 100 guests, and in the warmer weather the sprawling grounds can accommodate an alfresco or tented party of 300+ guests. The historic details of this Victorian era gem are simply magnificent. The main floor of four spacious but charming rooms and a main hallway is complete with a curved staircase just perfect for showing off that beautiful train of your wedding gown! The second floor is just as grand with separate quarters for the groom's party and the bridesmaids while the bride (and after the ceremony the bridal couple), can steal away some quiet moments in a private salon. Floor to ceiling windows allow for plenty of a natural light, and the garden and grounds are perfect for photos. Access to a private Long Island Sound beach is a short drive away when you are ready for a beautiful sunset. An affair at Brecknock Hall will be a memorable one indeed!

Bridgehampton Tennis & Surf Club

231 Mid Ocean Drive
Bridgehampton, NY 11932
(631) 537-1180
(212) 883-0606

Dreaming of a Hamptons beach wedding with the gently rolling ocean surf as your backdrop? The Bridgehampton Tennis and Surf Club will turn that dream into a reality. Located on private oceanfront property, the Bridgehampton Tennis and Surf Club offers so many possibilities, from a ceremony on the beach to a reception celebration on the deck, you can enjoy all that this oceanside resort offers without the hassle of bringing in the tents, party rentals and off-site catering that usual accompanies a beach wedding.

No matter the size or style of your occasion, from the casual clambake rehearsal dinner to the intimate anniversary party, or a milestone birthday celebration, the Bridgehampton Tennis and Surf Club is equipped to handle all the details for a one-of-a-kind memorable experience.

Your guests will be thoroughly entertained and you will love that every detail is taken care of, so you can count on a wonderful day by sea. Isn't that what a Hamptons celebration is all about?

Dering Harbor Inn

13 Winthrop Road
Shelter Island, NY 11964

Plan a beautiful, memorable wedding on the water’s edge at the picturesque Dering Harbor Inn. This unique wedding venue overlooks Shelter Island’s Dering Harbor, offering spacious grounds, plenty of lodging for the wedding couple and guests, and an unbelievable setting for beautiful photos.

The Dering Harbor Inn is situated on a waterfront bluff along Dering Harbor that assures discreet privacy with a breathtaking view—the magnificent sunsets are a must-see! A tented event can accommodate up to 300 guests, and it is quite easy to reach from Shelter Island’s North Ferry.

The property is also a resort, so you and your guests can enjoy on-site lodging during your celebration. Party the night away and then finish the evening with a stroll under the stars back to your well-appointed room.

These on-site hotel rooms are perfect for those who will be joining in the smaller gatherings happening before and after the big event, and offers a resort-style getaway for some relaxation too. The Dering Harbor Inn has the only heated pool and fitness center available on Shelter Island. The wedding night is included with the venue for the wedding couple, and guests receive a 5% discount.

The Dering Harbor Inn is beautiful, tranquil and so appealing. The friendly, attentive staff will welcome you with open arms and be ready to assist in every way possible. We have no doubt that your celebration at the Dering Harbor Inn will be an unforgettable experience. The best dates book quickly…contact them now to start planning your day of days.


231 Dune Road
Westhampton Beach, New York 11978
(631) 288-8878

OceanbleuSay I do at Oceanbleu, Westhampton Beach’s spectacular beachfront wedding and event venue. This one of a kind celebration space is bright and airy with soaring ceilings, tall panoramic windows and a covered deck, all ready for you to party next to the lapping waves and seabreezes of the Atlantic Ocean. Pair this oceanfront beauty with the exquisitely imaginative cuisine of Robbins Wolfe Eventeurs and you have a recipe for the Hamptons wedding of your dreams.

Oceanbleu’s stately imperial ballroom offers seaside glamour year-round for any reason you are celebrating, but she shines on a beautiful summer evening. Stage the ceremony on the beach with the Atlantic as a backdrop, but rest easy knowing the covered deck is available if inclement weather requires you to go with Plan B.

This beautiful venue is conveniently located at the The Ocean Resort at Bath and Tennis, so you can turn your wedding into an overnight or even a full weekend of festivities. The resort boasts a variety of stylish and eclectic guest rooms and beach cottages.

Begin your journey together at Oceanbleu, where the oceanfront wedding you envisioned will become reality.

The Pridwin Hotel

Shelter Island, NY
631-749-0476 or 800-273-2497

Imagine a crescent shaped beach with crystal clear waters. In the distance sail boats pushed by sea breezes glide on calm waters, and the opposite shores are lushly green. The blue sky is broken by a few puffy clouds and an osprey on wing; music and laughter are the only sounds. Thousands of miles from home? Nope! You're only 2 ½ hours from NYC at the incredibly gorgeous Pridwin Hotel on Shelter Island, nestled between North Fork Wine Country and the Hamptons. This complete resort can host up to 250 guests in its glass enclosed banquet room that opens to a huge water view deck. Guests staying in one of the many rooms available can enjoy the pool, tennis courts, and famous crescent beach. Whether for a wedding or corporate event, The Pridwin is perfect. Visit their web site and give their event planner, Alissa, a call.(A little tip: Ask her about rates for the "shoulder season." The island is beautiful in spring and fall).

The Quogue Club at Hallock House

47 Quogue Street
Quogue, NY 11959

The Quogue Club at Hallock House is an elegant and beautiful wedding and event venue in the Hamptons Whether you are planning an intimate wedding, rehearsal dinner, wedding brunch or other social event, The Quogue Club will work with you to make your event an exceptional experience. This renovated historic property, decorated by world-famous designer Alexa Hampton, perennially one of the Architectural Digest’s Top 100 Designers, offers a fabulous Hamptons appeal with exquisite dining in a luxurious, elegant, yet casually sophisticated setting.

Chef Matt Birnstill, formerly of the 1770 House in East Hampton, will customize the cuisine for your special social event. Floral decorations can be designed to reflect your event’s style and aesthetic. Chef prepares imaginative, international cuisine with sustainable locally sourced meats and seafood and farm to fork ingredients that range from the ultimate gourmet meal to casual foodie favorites.

The Quogue Club offers several options for selecting the perfect space for your celebration. Gatherings of up to 125 guests can be accommodated, yet our more intimate private spaces will be delightful for smaller groups. For a small gathering of 20 or fewer, we have the Salon with its cozy seating and working fireplace and the adjoining beautiful Conservatory. For larger groups, you can choose from the cozy Library and elegant Founders’ Room, or the stylish Dining Room and adjoining Bar and Tavern. For a more casual event, such as a film screening or a children’s activity, the Lounge offers flexibility to suit any variety of plans.

The Club’s luxurious hotel accommodations can sleep up to 32 persons; if your group is larger, the staff can assist with other local lodging options. While staying at the Club, guests can take advantage of group activities in the surrounding areas arranged by our staff. The Quogue Club is a child-friendly hotel and our staff will happily arrange family-friendly activities and outings.

The Quogue Club is a jewel about to be discovered, and is available year-round.

Santa's Christmas Tree Farm

30105 Main Rd
Cutchogue, NY 11935
(203) 512-8558
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When Santa's Christmas Tree Farm is not helping everyone deck the halls for Christmas, they are available to host your wedding, corporate event, special party, or any gathering you can imagine in the picturesque Cutchogue countryside. Nestled among the fragrant evergreens, the towering Oaks, the colorful Copper Beeches, and succulent fruits trees are a number of clearings that will be just the right size to host your event. Or add a glimmer of wonderland to your occasion along the lighted red woods. You can choose your location based on your desires and how you envision your special event. You can pitch the tent and set up your tables so you and your guests can take in breathtaking sunsets, or let darkness fall and gaze at the high and bright constellations. During an afternoon celebration wander the over 30 acres and take in the blooming holly, natural flora, and all the wonder of nature. The farm can accommodate tents of all sizes and parking is easy and can be discreet for up to 300 guests.

Santa's Christmas Tree Farm offers an affordable alternative to those who envision a natural open air event or ceremony without the complications of a beach program and without the high costs and rigid protocol of a vineyard experience. The farm has plenty of room, is accommodating, and conveniently located just off the Main Road in Cutchogue, New York. It is a North Fork location that is easy to get to from anywhere!

The farm will also ensure their gift shop remains open during at least part of your special event so your guests can enjoy taking in all that is Christmas and so much more. And to the rear of the gift shop can accommodate smaller functions such as rehearsal dinners, cocktail parties, birthday parties, or even small wedding ceremonies.

At Santa's Christmas Tree Farm you run your show! Of course there is a site fee – quite affordable too—but from there you take charge. Farm staff is available to offer guidance and to assist, but you can structure your event in a manner that best suits your dreams, desires, expectations, and wishes.

Contact Lisa at Santa's Christmas Tree Farm today to start planning your special country farm event!

Southampton Historical Museum

17 Meeting House Lane
Southampton, NY 11968
(631) 283-2494

Whether you have dreamed of a wedding in a country barn or an elegant Victorian lawn party, the Southampton Historical Museum will suit you perfectly—and all in the heart of Southampton Village. Located just a few blocks from local churches of nearly every denomination, with the ocean so close you hear it, smell it and feel its briny breezes. Guest lodging, public transportation and every service you might need within easy walking distance. This is an historic, romantic venue just perfect to begin your life together.

For an occasion with a more formal style, you and your guests can relax on the spacious front porch of the 1843 Rogers Mansion. Then step through the front door and back in time as you greet your guests in the front parlor, furnished with period pieces, or say your vows in the light and airy music room with a view of the great lawn as your backdrop. If your guest list is intimate, you can celebrate in the music room as well, but any size party will want to spill out onto the lush green lawn and nearby pergola when weather permits.

If your celebration leans to more than a little bit country, then the newly renovated barn, due to be complete for the 2014 season, will appeal to you. Bring in the fiddle players, pull on the cowboy boots and party like it's 1899. This space just begs for an old-fashioned barn dance.

Spaces like this will book early, so contact the Southampton Historical Museum for a tour today to make sure your preferred date is still available. This will definitely be a Hamptons destination wedding to remember!

Southampton Inn

91 Hill Street
Southampton, NY 11968
(631) 283-6500

Southampton InnYour wedding at the Southampton Inn will bring you all the best that a Hamptons celebration can offer, at any time of the year. This boutique hotel has several gathering spaces to suit any size party, from an intimate cocktail party on the open-air terrace to a posh banquet in the spacious ballroom, and many options in between. All offer that distinctly Hamptons style that we all love.

It’s true that the Hamptons are most appreciated for the summertime parties, especially on or near the waterfront, but this slice of heaven is also lovely and romantic in the offseason. The Southampton Inn is one of the few venues available year-round, with on-site lodging, ready for your winter wedding, or other celebration. From rehearsal dinners, bachelor and bachelorette parties and showers to milestone birthdays and anniversaries, there is just the right space for you.

While the ballroom and terrace are wonderful, we suggest you also consider the spacious, and well-appointed, library, or one of the smaller gathering rooms. In warm weather, an intimate gathering on the lawn, or poolside would be perfect. No matter which you choose, you can count on attentive, eager to please staff to assure that every request from you and your guests is fulfilled.

Since the Southampton Inn is also a hotel, you and your guests can use it as home base for your stay in the Hamptons. Reserve a block of rooms, including the honeymoon suite, and enjoy pre and post party activities in posh Southampton Village. You are within easy walking distance to boutiques, restaurants, art galleries, and so much more. The ocean beaches are a short drive away, too.

Contact the staff at the Southampton Inn to explore the possibilities for your celebration. Their friendly staff is ready to help you create an event that suits you perfectly.

Suffolk Theater

118 E Main St
Riverhead, NY 11901
(631) 727-4343

Suffolk Theater A wedding celebration at the beautiful Suffolk Theater is brimming with art deco glamour. This historical landmark is a beautifully and faithfully restored 1930's era playhouse that offers all the amenities required of a 21st Century party.

Enter through the main doors feeling like the stars of a movie premiere. Greet your guests in the theater as though you are Bogie and Bacall winding your way through the supper club style layout. Then enjoy a dinner dance banquet prepared by a talented catering team. Your memories of your celebration will last a lifetime. Flexible seating arrangements can accommodate up to 600 guests!

The Suffolk Theater is a distinctive and elegant year-round alternative to the vineyard, farm or beach wedding that the North Fork and Hamptons are so well known for. And it is also transcends the standard banquet hall experience that is typically available on the East End. Put yourself in the hands of the friendly, helpful and diligent event planning team at the Suffolk Theater. They will take care of every detail so your special occasion, from a wedding to a corporate event, will be all you hope it to be!

An event space this special and unique will book the best dates quickly, so be sure to make an appointment for a personal tour of the theater right away. Call or email the Suffolk Theater to day to get started on planning your event.

Sylvester Manor

80 North Ferry Road
Shelter Island, New York, 11964
(631) 749-0626


Sylvester Manor is an historic plantation that has become the jewel of Shelter Island, and a wedding at this picturesque waterfront estate can be as large or intimate as your heart desires. This property combines farm, fields and forest with gracious creekfront lawns that surround the 1737 manor house. So, you can plan for an event with up to 350 under the tent or an intimate gathering in lush and leafy gardens.

Whether you are dreaming of a rustic country farm wedding or an enchanting soiree on the sprawling waterfront lawn, Sylvester Manor can make your vision come to life. The beautiful manor house overlooks Gardiners Creek and the lawn has plenty of room for a large tent to shelter your guests while you all enjoy a beautiful sunset over the water. The short walk to the gardens will bring you to leafy arbors, romantic alcoves and brick paths, perfect for a cozier, more intimate gathering, or even an elopement ceremony.

Remember also that Sylvester Manor is a working farm and education center. In the right season, you may include in your event the flowers and produce grown right on the property. It is a wonderful way to support the broader mission of Sylvester Manor’s community supported agriculture farming efforts. Besides, everywhere you turn is another beautiful backdrop for your wedding photos.

No matter which is your preference, the friendly and knowledgeable staff will help guide you to prepare for your special day. The best dates definitely book quickly, so don’t delay your visit to Sylvester Manor to start planning your wedding now.